Cancer

Perhaps the most stressful sentence you can ever here is "I'm sorry you / your partner / your child / your parent / your friend has cancer".

First of all comes the shock, then the fear and then the feeling of helplessness, "What can I possibly do to help?"

In our own case, Allyn was diagnosed with bowel cancer in 2011; the initial shock almost paralysed us into inactivity.  Luckily we were helped by a homoeopath friend to release the shock from our systems.  We then felt able to confront the fear, work through it and decide how to proceed.  Fortunately we had the information, help and the training to be able to contribute towards Allyn's recovery.  Other people aren't so lucky.  Eventually the shock wears off and the fear has to be dealt with but often the feeling of helplessness remains.

Disempowerment and Stress


This feeling of disempowerment is a huge stress to the system of the person with the cancer and to their loved ones who can offer very little help.

High levels of stress are not good for you, especially if you have cancer.  The stress hormones weaken the immune system, create an acidic environment in the body and encourage inflammation.  All these things make it harder for the body to heal itself from cancer.  It also wears down those who are caring for you making them more susceptible to their own health challenges.

We were lucky.  We received help from many people around the world who took the time to research topics and send us the information we needed to aid Allyn's recovery.  We would like to "pay it forward" by passing on all the information we have discovered, as an expression of our gratitude for Allyn's recovery.

Why didn't Allyn just leave it to the oncologists? Why should anyone need to help themselves?

This is how Allyn was told he had cancer.

    "Well you have cancer but the good news is that we can totally cure most of the people with this type of cancer."

Now leaving aside for the moment the poor communication skills of the person who thought that was a good way to give him such bad news, let's examine what he meant when he said that.

When we pushed him on what he meant by "totally cure" he meant that Allyn would live for 5 years from today. When we pushed him for what he meant by "most" he said 54%!

(Although technically correct that isn't the figure I think of when someone says most.)

So what he was saying to us was that if people just followed his advice 46% of those people wouldn't survive for 5 years!

That's why you need to help yourself.


 What can you do to help yourself?

Everyone has about three quarters of a million cancer cells develop every day.  What keeps them in check is your immune system.

Think of a balance with your immune system on one side and cancer cells on the other.
Immune System
Cancer Cells
If the immune system outweighs the cancer then the cancer cells are destroyed.  If the cancer cells outweigh the immune system then they can go on to develop into tumours etc.

How can you swing the balance in your favour?
  1.     Things which will increase the activity of the immune system and make it more effective.
  2.     Things which weaken cancer cells so that their growth is slowed.
Immune System
Cancer Cells
It turns out that there are loads of things you can do yourself to support these two aims. We have been discovering them and we are making this information available to you .

Who is this information for?

This information is useful to anyone who has cancer and wants to help themselves with their own recovery; those who have recovered from cancer and don't want it to come back; those who are looking after someone with cancer; and anyone who doesn't want to develop cancer.

In the meantime

In the mean time if anyone needs to talk to Allyn about any of this he is more than happy to help in any way he can.  Please feel free to email him or call the centre on 01785 616010.
 Allyn's Resources

If you have found your way to this page because you have cancer, or a loved one does, here is a list of everything that we found helpful in contributing to Allyn's recovery.

This is by no means a difinitive list, rather it is only what we found to be helpful.  Just because something doesn't appear on the list does not mean it should not be considered.

BOOKS
Books we found to be very helpful.

List of Services

 AUDIOS

Audio presentations which helped us. The information audios to help us plan, and the mediations which helped to de-stress us, gain clarity and marshall Allyn's inner resources.

List of Services

 VIDEOS

Video presentations which helped us.

List of Services

DOCUMENTS

Pdf files of documents which helped us.  We are pretty sure that all of these are in the public domain but if you own the copyright to any of this information please contact us and we will make sure you have the recognition you deserve for making such helpful information available.

List of Services

ORGANISATIONS

Organisations which provide vital information and/or services. We have found all that are listed here to be very helpful and sane in their approach to better health.

List of Services